I’m Turning into My Mother!

Omg I’m turning into my mother!

I'm turning into my Mother MSawareness

No it’s not what you may be thinking. So many say that as if it’s a terrible thing. In my case it was a funny moment. Over the weekend I was having a terrible time getting up. From the couch, bed, you name it. My legs have become so weak over the last few weeks. On a number of occasions I have needed help getting up.

Any way……I was trying to get up. In doing that I scoot myself up to the edge of my seat. Mind you that in itself isn’t easy. Usually takes a couple scoots to get close enough to the edge. I then turn my legs to the side. Which ever side the arm is on because I have to use it to push up on. All this while making sure I have my legs turned just right so that I can push up on the arm and have my right leg steady as possible and taking the blunt of my weight. If I were to go for lift off on my left leg I would surely fall. As I was doing this an image of my mom popped in my head. Jeez you get up just like mom! Lol. I laughed to myself and said I’m turning into my mother!

This is not a bad thing at all. My mom has struggled with her left side all of her life. She adapted and found ways to do most everything anyone else can! I remember when I started school kids started asking me. What’s wrong with your mom? A particular time always comes to mind. I had a friend over and my mom made us sandwiches. The little girl said to me why does your mom put a dent in the bread? What is wrong with her hand? I was confused. What is she talking about? There is nothing wrong with my mom. I don’t remember saying anything. My mom just explained to the girl like she always did. She explained that it is hard for her to hold on to the bread because of her hand so she presses into the bread. I think I was confused most of the afternoon about that. I thought sandwiches were supposed to look like that! I’m sure I was aware that my mom was different.  Her hand was different from mine, different from the rest of my family, or any friends. I knew she had a hard time walking and doing certain things. I knew because of that she found ways that worked for her. Maybe it was different from how most did it but it was perfectly normal to me.


There was absolutely nothing wrong with my mom. She was mom! I didn’t know any different. She did everything other moms did. She cooked, cleaned, drove. She loved us and made sure we were taken care of.

Growing up I watched my mom do all of these things in spite of. I watched how she had found ways to do what she needed to. Like getting up or getting out of the tub. She didn’t complain. I don’t think I ever heard her say she wished it was different. Except maybe how kids and others treated her.


She was always an inspiration to me. The strength, courage, and determination she has is something I have always drawn on. Little did I know a time in my life would come that I would need to draw on all of that as much as I do right now. She is a reason to keep pushing.

So I will take turning into my mother with a smile on my face!

In Memory

You will continue to be my strength through life. I know in time the pain of losing you will ease and the memories will last a lifetime. Love and miss you more than words can say. 7/31/20

25 thoughts on “I’m Turning into My Mother!

  1. Ya some things are ok! Others scare me sometimes!lol! But to persevere thru anything is probably one of the best lessons she taught us! For that i am thankful! Love ya Mom!

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  2. I know how you feel. I keep wondering how my mother got behind my mirror, or into my clothes closet or took over what I’m trying to say sometimes! I’m very glad to meet you, look forward to catching up and following you.

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  3. Oops, hit the wrong key and I’m not sure if my comment made it through. I was impressed at the respect you have for your mom and hope my kids think the same of me…thanks for playing the Pinterest game!

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  4. Came across your post on Janice’s blog party. I’m glad your mom has provided such support and humor for you. I’m becoming more like my mom, too. In my case, it connecting with people and empathizing with them quickly. As a shy kid I used to be embarrassed when she’d chat so easily with strangers. Now I’m less in my shell, too. Enjoy your weekend!

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  5. I had been turning into my mother for quite a while but when I had my first grandchild I went full-on Mama. Like you, I didn’t think that was a bad thing. I loved how you wrote about your mom. Your love for her was evident!

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  6. I think it’s actually wonderful you thought sandwiches always looked like that, that your mum was so careful to do her best, manage her struggles as best she could with as minimal impact on you or your relationship as possible. She sounds like an incredible lady, and I’m sure she will be proud of you for the strong lady you’ve become, too. I also see the ‘turning into my mother’ as being a compliment (well, in some ways!) 😉
    Thank you for sharing this  ♥
    Caz xx


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